So here’s one reason why I started this blog. One of the bloggers on WordPress has as her tagline for her “Fat Bridesmaid” blog, “Who wants a twig when you can have a whole tree?” First, this metaphor is a wee bit unsexy. A tree? Reminds me of gnarls and stumps. Or many men climbing a big tree. Or a home to other animals and organisms. But I digress.
The thing is there are an awful lot of overweight women out there who are rude and antagonistic to fit and/or slim women, and I was getting tired of it. I’ve even seen fat women elbow their men or give them evil-eye looks because they were checking out a nice-looking woman. That doesn’t bother me so much-what bothers me is the comments and looks the big girls give the “other” woman. Just because YOU don’t exercise and take care of yourself doesn’t give you the right to throw proverbial stones at the women who do.
We all know this to be true–fat girls, skinny girls, men–we know there is a war of the weight issue. My guy even notices it. He’ll say, “Did you see that big woman give you the evil eye?” I’ve just learned not to look other ppl in the face. The women are far worse than the men about checking you out–at least the guys are subtle. The women stand there with a smug look.
Slim people get the smart-a** remarks from acquaintances, too, “There’s no way you can eat that much without purging.” Well, yes, way. A body in motion requires a lot more calories, but far less, I’m sure, than an obese person eats with her poor diet.
So when you stop your rude remarks and your whining, I’ll stop mine.